|My Christmas Wreath|
2. Check into a hotel or even a back packers which is offering a Christmas dinner and enjoy the company of fellow dinners.
3. Volunteer to assist at one of the many charity Christmas dinners which you will find in most towns and cities. Christmas is a time of giving so giving your time will be satisfying and fitting.
4. Invite your neighbours, even those you don't know and especially those alone, in for a drink before they head off to their celebrations. One of them might even invite you to theirs. If having people in is not your thing perhaps you could call on them with small gifts and your Christmas wishes.
5. Visit a loved one's grave. In New Zealand cemeteries are cheerful, happy places on Christmas day with groups of family and friends visiting and all willing to chat. It sounds morbid but it isn't. I do this every year and the spirit of happiness and goodwill there is quite uplifting.
6. Even if you are not religious, go to church. Enjoy the Christmas carols, the joy of Christmas and the feeling of community.
7. Go for a walk and wish every one you meet "Happy Christmas". You are bound to get merry greetings back and may even enjoy some conversations.
8. Relish being alone. Eat what you want, listen to music you like, become absorbed in a TV movie, light candles, decorate the house. If this sounds lonely just visualise how fraught a big and noisy Christmas can be, especially when that difficult uncle turns up!
9. Spend the day planning something really special to look forward to. It is easy to become so lost in planning something on the internet that suddenly the day has slipped by.
10. Remember Christmas is just one day and tomorrow is another day. The key is to plan ahead and to get out there. Don't sit at home by yourself feeling miserable.
Please feel free to add your ideas in the Comments section.
And have the best, happiest, most wonderful Christmas!
|St Heliers Bay, my local beach, Because they always bloom at Christmas time|
Pohutukawa are known as the New Zealand Christmas tree